How to show own posts if privacy is set to friends

How to show own posts if privacy is set to friends

Here my sql query
$result = mysql_query("select t.tid, t.title, t.time, t.authorid, t.photo,
f.fuid, f.myuid, u.username as writer from topics as t, friends as f,
users as u where cid='$cid' and u.id=t.authorid and (f.fuid=t.authorid and
f.myuid='$myid' or f.myuid=t.authorid and f.fuid='$myid') order by tid
desc LIMIT $start, $perpage");
i am getting output only when friends post something but not getting
anything when i post..my friends are able to view my updates but myself
not.help related this.